BUT - IT`S NEVER EVER - LOVE!
If you`re going on holiday to Pattaya, the odds are you`ll have great fun and sex with a few of the bar girls – it`s a service – no more – so never
forget this – and when it`s over, simply walk away! To the 100`s of bar girls it`s only
sex – it will NEVER be love! Most bar girls will tell you “why have sex for fun
– when you can have sex for money?”
All Pattaya bar girls try to have fun, much more than
they would in the backs of their villages in the wilds of "Nakhon Nowhere".
On arrival at the bar in Pattaya for the very first time, “farm fresh” newbies
get little help from the more established bar girls, and why should they? If
they`re younger and prettier, then they`re competition! (another example why I
don`t believe that all Thai`s accept “everyone`s equal"). How can we be,
when Thai values are completely different to ours? I was once told by a Pattaya
bar girl "We can NEVER be the same" and believe me, the more time l
spend on holiday in Pattaya – the more I appreciate this is true. So how can
you possibly love each other?
Most established bar girls already have Thai boyfriends.
They also have farang/boyfriends from abroad that send money on a regular basis
– this is called sponsoring. Thai men have no problems whatsoever if their
girlfriend works as a bar girl! They know and accept she will have sex with
other men, but the majority don`t get jealous. That will appear surprising to
many of us, in fact many Thai men openly encourage this to supplement their
“income”! This is in complete contrast to our antiquated Western values
regarding sex. You don`t have to be in a
relationship to participate in, or enjoy sex – especially with a Pattaya bar
girl! We`ve been doing it for years – just ask your parents. Sex with a bar
girl is great fun, but ask yourself truly - where does love come into it?
Whether you go for a newbie, or a more mature bar girl – make her laugh, have fun together - inter-reaction is paramount. Be tactile and touchy, but do not grope in public (well, until you`ve at least paid the bar fine). Be discrete too, as openly showing affection is still frowned upon in Thailand – even in Pattaya!
Thai men are not very responsive, or romantic. Sex between Thai men and bar girls is mainly about his enjoyment only! By contrast, some bar girls in Pattaya still find it very odd that many of us (farangs) even enjoy “a kiss and cuddle". To The Thai men sex is readily available and as such it`s seldom emotional, with little (if any) foreplay, so forget the romance and love! Sex is simply a service that women and bar girls provide to keep their Thai men and customers happy! Sex is a service and that`s it. No love, no romance and certainly no regrets or jealousy! So enjoy yourself, have fun and great sex – then simply walk away!
I
have been seeing the same woman, for the past 14 years
or so who l met in a go-go bar in Pattaya! About 6 years ago, I
arranged to meet her at the airport, for us to travel down to Pattaya
for a holiday. She didn`t show, and there was no answer from her mobile
either! 10 days
later, she just appeared in the bar at PattayaI where I was drinking.
Her feeble excuse was that her mothers sister had died, she had gone
to her funeral up in the mountains, where she lost her phone. Amazingly
there were
no phones in the village either? You don`t have to be a rocket
scientist to
work out that someone else (another sponsor), had arrived for a holiday -
at the same time as me! So, because l think it`s "better the devil you
know", I still see her. She
ONCE told me that she`s in love with me, and she thinks “I same
husband”. Not
quite sure if she meant she thinks of me AS her husband, or if she`s
already
got one? But maybe that`s Thai “love” for you – haha!
So why do so many men fall in “in love” with bar girls in
Pattaya, knowing they will be lied to and cheated? Don`t be stupid - Do you
really want to spend the rest of your life with a bar girl who`s been working as a
prostitute, and having sex with 20 or more different guys every month - it`s
only lust - not love! NEVER EVER confuse the two. Remember enjoy yourself, have
fun and great sex – then just walk away!
If you`re looking for romance with a Thai girl or lady
(not a bar girl) then try AsianDating.com or one of the many other on-line dating services.
Your chances of long term success will be far higher, and it`ll also be cheaper! Good
luck.
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