Is cheap sex with a Pattaya bargirl the answer?

Pattaya Bar Girl 

Cheap sex is not always the answer!

Cheap sex with Pattaya bar girls is not always the answer to your sex fantasies – I assure you. Yes, there`s 100`s of beautiful bar girls and girls working in Pattaya massage parlours, short term bars etc, all offering sex - but finding the right girl, at the right price is very difficult, and if it`s not handled correctly – you`ll probably put yourself in some very difficult situations. Here`s the answer why!

Many men in Pattaya bars boast about their conquests by having cheap sex with a bar girl, gloating that they`ve “had her” for just 200 baht etc. That might have been the  case, as the bar girl was in desperate need of money. But l wonder just how good that cheap sex really was? All bar girls in Pattaya have prices “in their heads” as to what their sex services are worth. So, If you opt for cheap sex from a bar girl then don`t expect a full service – how can you? . Don`t get me wrong, if you’re lucky, it can still be great fun, but I`m just telling you what to watch out for! Cheap sex Is not always necessarily the answer

Here`s two golden rules, when talking about cheap sex to a Pattaya bar girl:- 

1. Never ever let her know you`re travelling on holiday alone.

2. Also, never tell her that it`s your first time in Pattaya.

I believe short term is the answer when you`re negotiating cheap sex with a Pattaya bar girl. That way, you`ll be “in and out”, without the risk of too many complications. There can still be pit-falls, but overall this will reduce your “risk(s)”. If you do, then take her to a “neutral” short term room – never go to your hotel/room - and don`t even think of going to hers! 

A friend of mine once took a bar-girl back to his room. After having sex, she thought he was alone, (as he stupidly told her it was his first time in Pattaya), and she refused to go. He previously paid her the agreed price (and it wasn`t cheap sex for sure), but no matter what he said, she wouldn`t go – the bar girl just demanded more money until I intervened! Intimidation is certainly one of the bar girls greatest weapons – please be very careful – especially as a newbie! So take your Pattaya bar girl to a neutral short term room. Here you have the choice to leave, and because there`s no point in her staying there, you`ll also avoid any unforeseen confrontation!

If at any time you`re at bar and talking about cheap sex, with a bar girl and she calls you a “cheap Charlie”, watch out! You may think you`ve been clever in getting cheap sex at a low rate – but now she`ll be plotting how to extract some more money from you. Her first ploy will be the “sex service” you`ll receive,(or lack of it) in the bedroom. The odds are you`ll get missionary sex and no more! The bar girl will show no reaction or interest whatsoever, and probably count the spots on the ceiling! If you want “sextras”, these will certainly cost you more! 

Is cheap sex really the answer? 
Enjoy yourself and have fun with the bar girls of Pattaya!

So always make certain your bar girl knows what you 
expect from her, and agree the final price, before you take her out of the bar. Never be embarrassed, because to her it`s simply business for providing a sex service – no more! Another ploy will be to ask for money to cover food or a taxi. 50 baht will cover each of these! Give her the exact money – if you don`t then l doubt it if you`ll see any change, that`s even if she bothers to return at all.

Long term (a few days or more), can be very dangerous if you`ve managed to negotiate cheap sex. A more experienced bar girl once told me “Always sleep with one eye open in Pattaya”. So keep in close contact with your wallet/money, because your long term bar girl will be working on ways to prise additional money from you! If she can`t then there`s other ways you will pay! For instance you might go for a meal, and because you can`t speak Thai, you might think she`s having a long conversation with the waitress. She`s not – she`s ordering loads off the menu. When it`s served, she picks uninterested at the food and says “I no hungry”. Who`s then left to foot the heavy bill? The cheap Charlie of course!

So if you`re going or thinking of or going with a Pattaya bar girl, l hope you`ve now realised that cheap sex is not always the answer – so take good care!