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Saturday 25 August 2012

Having sex with a bar girl in Pattaya is always great fun –but it’s never love”!

SEX WITH PATTAYA BAR GIRLS CAN BE GREAT FUN
BUT - IT`S NEVER EVER - LOVE!

If you`re going on holiday to Pattaya, the odds are you`ll have great fun and sex with a few of the bar girls – it`s a service – no more – so never forget this – and when it`s over, simply walk away! To the 100`s of bar girls it`s only sex – it will NEVER be love! Most bar girls will tell you “why have sex for fun – when you can have sex for money?”

All Pattaya bar girls try to have fun, much more than they would in the backs of their villages in the wilds of "Nakhon Nowhere". On arrival at the bar in Pattaya for the very first time, “farm fresh” newbies get little help from the more established bar girls, and why should they? If they`re younger and prettier, then they`re competition! (another example why I don`t believe that all Thai`s accept “everyone`s equal"). How can we be, when Thai values are completely different to ours? I was once told by a Pattaya bar girl "We can NEVER be the same" and believe me, the more time l spend on holiday in Pattaya – the more I appreciate this is true. So how can you possibly love each other?

Most established bar girls already have Thai boyfriends. They also have farang/boyfriends from abroad that send money on a regular basis – this is called sponsoring. Thai men have no problems whatsoever if their girlfriend works as a bar girl! They know and accept she will have sex with other men, but the majority don`t get jealous. That will appear surprising to many of us, in fact many Thai men openly encourage this to supplement their “income”! This is in complete contrast to our antiquated Western values regarding sex. You don`t have to be in a relationship to participate in, or enjoy sex – especially with a Pattaya bar girl! We`ve been doing it for years – just ask your parents. Sex with a bar girl is great fun, but ask yourself truly - where does love come into it?


Whether you go for a newbie, or a more mature bar girl – make her laugh, have fun together - inter-reaction is paramount. Be tactile and touchy, but do not grope in public (well, until you`ve at least paid the bar fine). Be discrete too, as openly showing affection is still frowned upon in Thailand – even in Pattaya! 

Thai men are not very responsive, or romantic. Sex between Thai men and bar girls is mainly about his enjoyment only! By contrast, some bar girls in Pattaya still find it very odd that many of us (farangs) even enjoy “a kiss and cuddle". To The Thai men sex is readily available and as such it`s seldom emotional, with little (if any) foreplay, so forget the romance and love! Sex is simply a service that women and bar girls provide to keep their Thai men and customers happy! Sex is a service and that`s it. No love, no romance and certainly no regrets or jealousy! So enjoy yourself, have fun and great sex – then simply walk away!

I have been seeing the same woman, for the past 14 years or so who l met in a go-go bar in Pattaya! About 6 years ago, I arranged to meet her at the airport, for us to travel down to Pattaya for a holiday. She didn`t show, and there was no answer from her mobile either! 10 days later, she just appeared in the bar at PattayaI where I was drinking. Her feeble excuse was that her mothers sister had died, she had gone to her funeral up in the mountains, where she lost her phone. Amazingly there were no phones in the village either? You don`t have to be a rocket scientist to work out that someone else (another sponsor), had arrived for a holiday - at the same time as me! So, because l think it`s "better the devil you know", I still see her. She ONCE told me that she`s in love with me, and she thinks “I same husband”. Not quite sure if she meant she thinks of me AS her husband, or if she`s already got one? But maybe that`s Thai “love” for you – haha!

So why do so many men fall in “in love” with bar girls in Pattaya, knowing they will be lied to and cheated? Don`t be stupid - Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with a bar girl who`s been working as a prostitute, and having sex with 20 or more different guys every month - it`s only lust - not love! NEVER EVER confuse the two. Remember enjoy yourself, have fun and great sex – then just walk away!

If you`re looking for romance with a Thai girl or lady (not a bar girl) then try AsianDating.com or one of the many other on-line dating services. Your chances of long term success will be far higher, and it`ll also be cheaper! Good luck.




Sunday 19 August 2012

Is cheap sex with a Pattaya bargirl the answer?


Pattaya Bar Girl 
Cheap sex is not always the answer!

Cheap sex with Pattaya bar girls is not always the answer to your sex fantasies – I assure you. Yes, there`s 100`s of beautiful bar girls and girls working in Pattaya massage parlours, short term bars etc, all offering sex - but finding the right girl, at the right price is very difficult, and if it`s not handled correctly – you`ll probably put yourself in some very difficult situations. Here`s the answer why!

Many men in Pattaya bars boast about their conquests by having cheap sex with a bar girl, gloating that they`ve “had her” for just 200 baht etc. That might have been the  case, as the bar girl was in desperate need of money. But l wonder just how good that cheap sex really was? All bar girls in Pattaya have prices “in their heads” as to what their sex services are worth. So, If you opt for cheap sex from a bar girl then don`t expect a full service – how can you? . Don`t get me wrong, if you’re lucky, it can still be great fun, but I`m just telling you what to watch out for! Cheap sex Is not always necessarily the answer

Here`s two golden rules, when talking about cheap sex to a Pattaya bar girl:- 
1. Never ever let her know you`re travelling on holiday alone.
2. Also, never tell her that it`s your first time in Pattaya.

I believe short term is the answer when you`re negotiating cheap sex with a Pattaya bar girl. That way, you`ll be “in and out”, without the risk of too many complications. There can still be pit-falls, but overall this will reduce your “risk(s)”. If you do, then take her to a “neutral” short term room – never go to your hotel/room - and don`t even think of going to hers! 

A friend of mine once took a bar-girl back to his room. After having sex, she thought he was alone, (as he stupidly told her it was his first time in Pattaya), and she refused to go. He previously paid her the agreed price (and it wasn`t cheap sex for sure), but no matter what he said, she wouldn`t go – the bar girl just demanded more money until I intervened! Intimidation is certainly one of the bar girls greatest weapons – please be very careful – especially as a newbie! So take your Pattaya bar girl to a neutral short term room. Here you have the choice to leave, and because there`s no point in her staying there, you`ll also avoid any unforeseen confrontation!

If at any time you`re at bar and talking about cheap sex, with a bar girl and she calls you a “cheap Charlie”, watch out! You may think you`ve been clever in getting cheap sex at a low rate – but now she`ll be plotting how to extract some more money from you. Her first ploy will be the “sex service” you`ll receive,(or lack of it) in the bedroom. The odds are you`ll get missionary sex and no more! The bar girl will show no reaction or interest whatsoever, and probably count the spots on the ceiling! If you want “sextras”, these will certainly cost you more! 

Is cheap sex really the answer? 
Enjoy yourself and have fun with the bar girls of Pattaya!


So always make certain your bar girl knows what you 
expect from her, and agree the final price, before you take her out of the bar. Never be embarrassed, because to her it`s simply business for providing a sex service – no more! Another ploy will be to ask for money to cover food or a taxi. 50 baht will cover each of these! Give her the exact money – if you don`t then l doubt it if you`ll see any change, that`s even if she bothers to return at all.

Long term (a few days or more), can be very dangerous if you`ve managed to negotiate cheap sex. A more experienced bar girl once told me “Always sleep with one eye open in Pattaya”. So keep in close contact with your wallet/money, because your long term bar girl will be working on ways to prise additional money from you! If she can`t then there`s other ways you will pay! For instance you might go for a meal, and because you can`t speak Thai, you might think she`s having a long conversation with the waitress. She`s not – she`s ordering loads off the menu. When it`s served, she picks uninterested at the food and says “I no hungry”. Who`s then left to foot the heavy bill? The cheap Charlie of course!

So if you`re going or thinking of or going with a Pattaya bar girl, l hope you`ve now realised that cheap sex is not always the answer – so take good care!

Thursday 9 August 2012

Want sex with a bar girl in Pattaya Thailand?


Guidance & advice - sex with a bar girl 
in Pattaya Thailand?

Want sex with a  bar girl in Pattaya Thailand - who doesn’t? So how do you go about it? Unfortunately, sex with a bar girl in Thailand is not in their eyes compulsory, even though most bar girls are desperate for money! Despite all your beliefs, if bar girls don`t want to have sex with you – they won`t! When chatting to a bar girl, you may think you`re in control of the situation.You may think you hold all the cards. You may even think your cash makes you irresistible to her, but l`m sorry to disappoint you, because you`ll be wrong on every account! Sex with a bar girl in pattaya Thailand is “up to her” – not you!

The “poor” bar girl has more principles than you and I – that`s for sure! Principles do not relate to our somewhat out-dated western views regarding sex. Sex with a bar girl in Pattaya Thailand is another issue altogether! Sex to her can be fun, it can be enjoyable, but without the necessity to be in love, or even to be in a relationship (please remember this!). Sex with a bar girl in Pattaya, means she`ll have fun, in return for a service – and nothing more! To a bar girl, sex is no different than her serving you with a drink, and in return you buy her one – it`s just a service – that`s all. Providing you pay for it (with a small tip of appreciation), the bar girl will be more than happy! Young bar girls, the same as young men - enjoy sex! So if they enjoy sex - what`s wrong with enjoying sex for money?

However, bar girl principles are strong, in fact very strong. Although Thai culture is based on the fact that “everyone is equal”, l believe that`s simply not true! Girls working in Ago-gos have to have sex with “X” amount of customers every month. If they don`t their wages are cut, but despite this, some girls still will not have sex with certain customers! Bar girls can do the exactly the same, but how can they judge when everyone`s supposed to be equal? I honestly don`t know, so l`ll leave that for you to decide.

So then,how do you have sex with a bar girl in Pattaya? Often there is a language barrier between you and the bar girl, but this is easily overcome. Simple gestures and actions are commonplace when communicating. If you can master this, and are clean shaven, presentable, and polite - the odds are she will “warm to you”. To make certain – do your utmost to keep your bar girl amused. A sense of humour, a smile and a funny gesture will work wonders on her - and l cannot stress how important this is. Bar girls love fun, they want to be amused and if you follow my advice, the odds are they will respond with great sex, by keeping you fully amused - in the bedroom! 


In my opinion, if you want sex with a bar girl in Pattaya Thailand, you`ll have a far greater success and mind blowing sex, if you simply make fun and laughter with a happy smile, as opposed to a drunken, loud mouthed, beer swilling idiot! 

It`s always worth remembering too, that all bar girls offer a short term sex service! In the bar she may look like the stunning sexy starlet of your dreams, but will she perform “U” turns under the sheets when it comes to sex in bed? With that in mind, I recommend you take your bar girl for a short term “trial” and put your “toe in the water” before committing for a longer period! 

Want sex with a bar girl in Pattaya Thailand? Then just follow my simple advice, and you`ll be getting plenty of it too!

Sunday 5 August 2012

When Is The Best Time To Book A Holiday To Pattaya

When Is The Best Time To Book A Holiday To Pattaya - Here`s 10 undisputable reasons, why you should book that dream holiday to Pattaya Thailand today! 

Exchange Rate: Since August (last year), the best rate has been 50.5 baht to the £. Now it`s edging even closer to 50, so it`s almost reached its lucrative peak again. Quite simply, your holiday £ will now stretch even further in Pattaya Thailand.

Flights: With direct flights at under £550, indirect flights at £470, you`ve got to take advantage of these great holiday flight offers now.

Accommodation: Basic accommodation can be had from under £5.00 a night, budget guest houses from £6.50, and grand luxury 5* hotels too. Pattaya is bursting at the seams with all types of holiday accommodation, to suit every holiday makers budget and requirements.

Shopping: From simple holiday souvenirs, tailor made garments, to exquisite Thai 18ct Gold! Everything is available in Pattaya. Plenty of street vendors, markets, shops and one of the largest shopping malls in Asia, so there`s no need to spend hours of your holiday hunting for bargains – they`re all on your doorstep!

Food: Dining out? Where`s the best place to eat in Pattaya? Grab yourself a tasty meal from one of the 100`s of food carts for about 40 pence! There`s every cuisine imaginable in Pattaya. From McDonalds, KFC, Burger King, Pizzas.. Food markets, BBQ`s, sea food restaurants, where you can select your favourite fish from the tank they`re swimming in, to lavish 5* restaurants and hotels selling food from all over the world, it`s all very reasonably priced too.

Daytime Activities: Shops restaurants, beaches, water parks, crocodile farms, water sports, fishing, temples, Pattaya floating market, island tours, safe bathing, promenades walks, Zoos, pony trekking, markets bowling. Pattaya is a complete holiday resort, suitable for all ages and abilities.

Nightlife: Bars, A Go-Go`s Discos. Pattaya is world famous for its great fun “anything goes” night life, clubs, bar girls and lady boys. Although you can eat and drink virtually 24/7 in Pattaya, the evenings start to liven up when the bar girls arrive at 5.00pm until the early hours of the morning. The clubs, bars and Go-Go`s shut off the music at 2am, but as long as you have money in your pocket, you`ll always find a bar that is pleased to serve you.

Family Holidays. No holiday worries here. Thai people simply adore children and Pattaya is no different. As there`s no hard and fast rules as you`ll always see the girls amusing them until they`re worn out, (the kids that is). Bar Girls will always happily entertain the children, while parents drink at their bars. The beaches are safe, food and drinks cheap, and there`s loads for them to do. Pattaya is constantly being promoted as a safe family holiday resort, so why not give it a try?

Single Holiday Makers: Pattaya is just a dream resort. Whatever you want is here. You won`t be single for very long if you book a holiday to Pattaya. The 1000`s of bar girls will see to that, and with the vibrant night life rocking to all hours of the morning, you`ll be made to feel like a king every single day (and night).

Value: Now is undoubtedly the time to book your holiday flight to Pattaya, as not only is the exchange rate great value, but overall it`s so much cheaper than taking a holiday in The UK.  A fortnight`s holiday flight and accommodation to Thailand, can cost you as little as £650 each! When you book a room in Pattaya that`s what you pay, there`s no hidden supplements. Now, take into account the savings you`ll make on food drink and entertainment, transport, shopping etc etc, and your dream holiday in Pattaya Thailand, will definitely cost you less!

When IsThe Best Time To Book A Holiday To Pattaya - Right Now!


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